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		<title>Cynthia Ward on &#8220;Up in the Air&#8221; and Diversity</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 16:06:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeff VanderMeer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Cynthia Ward and Nisi Shawl are guestblogging on Booklifenow this week. Here&#8217;s Cynthia&#8217;s first solo post.
[SPOILER WARNING: If you haven’t seen the movie Up in the Air, you may want to skip this post.]
I don’t own a television and rarely get to the movies, so I tend to mentally drift into a happy fantasy world, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Cynthia Ward and Nisi Shawl are guestblogging on Booklifenow this week. Here&#8217;s Cynthia&#8217;s first solo post.</em></p>
<p>[SPOILER WARNING: If you haven’t seen the movie Up in the Air, you may want to skip this post.]</p>
<p>I don’t own a television and rarely get to the movies, so I tend to mentally drift into a happy fantasy world, one in which I imagine Hollywood has finally started to reflect the everyday human diversity you find merely by driving off a movie lot onto the L.A. streets.</p>
<p>My fantasy world is not, however, one in which all Hollywood releases have become great works of art. So I’m always pleasantly surprised to encounter an exceptional movie like Up in the Air. You get strong writing, sharp dialogue, superior acting, and even the occasional unpredictable plot twist. You also get timeliness, since its topic is corporate downsizing.</p>
<p>What you don’t get so much is diversity.</p>
<p>I should probably provide some context, because, after all, if the movie were set in Maine, and featured a man driving all over Bangor firing people, no one remotely familiar with the state would be surprised if the guy’s boss and coworkers were all white.</p>
<p>However, given that protagonist Ryan Bingham lives in the Midwest and jets all over the United States firing people, this is a remarkably white movie. His coworkers, his boss, his lover, his siblings, and their friends and families&#8212;white. Racial diversity is pretty much confined to the characters being fired, which gives the unfortunate message&#8212;oubtless unintentional, but still present&#8212;that minorities exist to be fired.</p>
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<p>Even worse, the character who reacts most negatively to being fired is a black woman.</p>
<p>While watching Up in the Air, I could just hear the gears grinding in the movie-makers’ heads: “We need to include an important black character. I know! She can be the character who commits suicide and causes one of the main characters to change her life!”</p>
<p>She’s just there to die and change a white character’s life? Well, I will agree that she’s certainly an important&#8212;even pivotal&#8212;character in Up in the Air. But she’s still a token.</p>
<p>You could even argue that, though this is a mainstream movie with no fantasy elements, she’s just another “<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Magical_negro">magical negro</a>”, present solely to facilitate change in a white character.</p>
<p>How do you avoid tokenism? It’s not terribly complicated. In the case of Up in the Air, it doesn’t even require changing the suicide’s race.</p>
<p>All that’s required in Up in the Air is mixing some diversity into the non-downsized section of the cast. Some nonwhite coworkers would be nice. Bingham’s boss could be African American, or Samoan, or Hispanic; you could make his sister’s fiance’ East Indian or Native American and add some people of color to their wedding guests. You could even make one or both of Ryan’s siblings into non-white adopted sisters.</p>
<p>Even better, you could make one or more of the movie’s three main characters a person or people of color.</p>
<p>Yeah, I know. What a starry-eyed dreamer I am, expecting Hollywood to present an interracial romance in a movie without making that movie about interracial dating. What a happy fantasy world I live in, thinking Hollywood would risk even as little (by its standards) as $25 million (source, <a href="http://74.125.155.132/search?q=cache:rWg7Fhh8XHAJ:articles.latimes.com/2009/nov/30/business/la-fi-ct-air30-2009nov30+up+in+the+air+production+cost&#038;cd=1&#038;hl=en&#038;ct=clnk&#038;gl=us">Los Angeles Times</a>, ) on a film with a nonwhite male or female lead.</p>
<p>Still, that leaves the third major character, Natalie Keener, “a fresh young Cornell graduate who has recently graduated at the top of her class [and has introduced a software system to] fire people from a remote location over the internet” (<a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1193138/synopsis">Internet Movie Database</a>, ). There’s no reason she couldn’t have been African American.</p>
<p>No reason except, perhaps, that it didn’t occur to those casting the movie that a hotshot computer-savvy Cornell valedictorian could be black.</p>
<p>However, since as a writer reading this you’re probably not casting a Hollywood movie, you’re free to mix it up in ways Hollywood can’t or won’t.</p>
<p>It doesn’t take a lot of work. It just takes a little thought.</p>
<p>And you don’t even need to do that little bit of thinking in your first draft (though it could certainly make your rewriting task easier).</p>
<p>I would love to say that I’m always mindful of diversity in my fiction writing. But, when left to their own devices, my first drafts lapse readily into a remarkably white and straight state.</p>
<p>So I just rewrite. Which I have to do anyway. And so do you.</p>
<p>If you were thinking about seeing Up in the Air, go. It’s a strong movie, one you can simultaneously enjoy as a viewer and learn from as a writer, in its strengths as well as its failure.</p>
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		<title>Nisi Shawl and Cynthia Ward on ROAARS and The Unmarked State</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 16:20:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeff VanderMeer</dc:creator>
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Nisi Shawl and Cynthia Ward are guestblogging here on Booklifenow all this week. Their book Writing the Other is a remarkable exploration of character, situation, and perception. It&#8217;s a recommended text in Booklife &#8211; JeffV
Cynthia and I want to begin our joint stint as guest bloggers here by sharing an excerpt from Writing the Other: [...]]]></description>
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<p><em>Nisi Shawl and Cynthia Ward are guestblogging here on Booklifenow all this week. Their book <a href="http://www.aqueductpress.com/books/WritingTheOther-Vol8.html">Writing the Other </a>is a remarkable exploration of character, situation, and perception. It&#8217;s a recommended text in Booklife &#8211; JeffV</em></p>
<p>Cynthia and I want to begin our joint stint as guest bloggers here by sharing an excerpt from <em>Writing the Other: A Practical Approach</em>, the book we wrote together based on the workshop we co-teach. The excerpt will help you get into the spirit of our upcoming posts, which are going to riff on related topics</p>
<p>First, we&#8217;ll define a couple of the terms we use:</p>
<p>The unmarked state&#8212;Possessing demographic characteristics considered &#8220;unremarkable&#8221; by the dominant culture.</p>
<p>ROAARS&#8212;This is an acronym we created to talk about a group of differences from the unmarked state that are, in this culture, considered to be deeply significant differences. These differences are: Race, (sexual) Orientation, Age, Ability, Religion, Sex.</p>
<p>Keep those concepts in mind as you read the book excerpt below. &#8211; <em>Nisi Shawl</em></p>
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<p>Parallax: Who is Looking at Whom?</p>
<p>Parallax is an astronomical concept that we’ve adapted to literary usage. The original idea can best be illustrated by performing a short, easy experiment.</p>
<p>Gaze at an object some distance away. If you’re indoors, look for something across the room from where you sit or stand: a picture on a wall, or a book on a shelf, perhaps. If you’re outside, choose an object in the middle distance: a tree, or a building not too far off, rather than a mountain, for instance. Hold one finger up so that it covers whatever it is you’re looking at. Now close your left eye. Open it again and close your right. Does your finger seem to shift in relation to the object you picked? That’s because of a shift in parallax. The slight change in the perspective from your left to your right eye results in an apparent change in the position of what you’re looking at. And the perceptual change is larger when you’re looking at something closer to your eyes—your finger—than something more distant—the picture or book in the background.</p>
<p>In terms of “Writing the Other,” slight shifts in your viewpoint characters’ positions vis-à-vis the unmarked state will change how they look at the world, at themselves, and at the concept of the unmarked state.</p>
<p>In fact, in addition to the dominant culture’s version of the unmarked state, each of us carries around our private take on what is “normal.” This definition adheres much more closely to our own specific characteristics.</p>
<p>Sometimes people apply this definition so inappropriately it’s almost funny. When Nisi first came to Seattle, she hired a cab driver to take her around to all the places she was considering renting. The driver was a white male with long, slicked back hair. He looked like he weighed 80 to 100 pounds more than she did. A crucifix dangled from his rearview mirror. Over the course of the afternoon they spent together, he advised Nisi as to what parts of town she should avoid: the Central District, for instance, an historically black neighborhood. As for Capitol Hill, known for its unconventionally clothed and behaved inhabitants—“You don’t even want to know what they get up to around there,” the driver claimed, referring, probably, to the prevalence of same-sex couples.</p>
<p>Remember, Nisi is black, and has slept with other women. So why would this man expect her to be uncomfortable in these neighborhoods? Well, because he was uncomfortable there. Obviously Nisi was just like him, because she was a good person: she’d been polite to him, laughed at his jokes, and conformed in plenty of other ways to his expectations of how a good person acts. He had, in the words of linguist MJ Hardman, conferred “honorary whiteness” on Nisi (personal communication).</p>
<p>Depending on their immediate context, your characters may perform similar mental acrobatics when thinking of those they come in contact with—or when thinking of themselves. They may identify with the dominant unmarked state though lacking its characteristics, or they may reject it—conditionally and partially, or without reserve. They may be conscious of privileges they lack or possess due to their ROAARS traits.</p>
<p>In the 1980s, Cynthia read a story in <em>The Magazine of Fantasy &#038; Science Fiction</em>. The title of it escapes her, but she will never forget the actual story. It may be the most astonishing work of fiction she’s ever read—although not for a good reason. The flaw she finds so memorable is a flaw that illuminates parallax.</p>
<p>The story was set in Maine. The protagonist was a straight Maine lobsterman. His best friend was a gay male bed-and-breakfast owner who’d moved up to Maine from New York. As she read, Cynthia spluttered with ever-increasing incredulity. Finally, she shouted aloud: “A Maine lobsterman would never be best friends with a New Yorker!”</p>
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<p>That&#8217;s all for now. If you&#8217;d like to find out why Cynthia, who identifies as a Mainer, felt so affronted by the idea of a lobsterman from her home state befriending a New Yorker, you&#8217;ll want to read the rest of the book. It came out from Aqueduct Press in 2005 and is still available online from the publisher and other online booksellers.</p>
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		<title>Nisi Shawl and Cynthia Ward: Guest-blogging on Booklifenow This Week</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 23:28:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeff VanderMeer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Nisi Shawl and Cynthia Ward, authors of Writing the Other, among other books, will be guest-blogging this week on Booklifenow. Please help welcome them&#8211;I think you&#8217;ll find their posts fascinating.
Here&#8217;s more about both writers&#8230;

Nisi Shawl’s story collection Filter House won the 2008 James Tiptree, Jr. Award and was nominated for a 2009 World Fantasy Award. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nisi Shawl and Cynthia Ward, authors of <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Writing-Other-Conversation-Pieces-8/dp/193350000X/">Writing the Other</a></em>, among other books, will be guest-blogging this week on Booklifenow. Please help welcome them&#8211;I think you&#8217;ll find their posts fascinating.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s more about both writers&#8230;</p>
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<p><strong><a href="http://www.sfwa.org/members/shawl/">Nisi Shawl’s</a></strong> story collection <em>Filter House </em>won the 2008 James Tiptree, Jr. Award and was nominated for a 2009 World Fantasy Award.  She received a second 2009 World Fantasy Award nomination for her novella “Good Boy.”  Shawl is the coeditor, with Dr. Rebecca Holden, of <em>Strange Matings: Science Fiction, Feminism, African American Voices, and Octavia E. Butler </em>(forthcoming). Her reviews and essays appear in the <em>Seattle Times</em> and <em>Ms. Magazine</em>, and she has contributed to <em>Women in Science Fiction and Fantasy</em> and <em>The Encyclopedia of Themes in Science Fiction</em>.  A former speaker at Duke University, Stanford University, Smith College, and the University of Washington, Shawl is a founding member of the Carl Brandon Society and serves on the Board of Directors of the Clarion West Writers Workshop, which she attended in 1992.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.cynthiaward.com/">Cynthia Ward</a></strong> was born in Oklahoma and lived in Maine, Spain, Germany, the San Francisco Bay Area, Seattle, and Tucson before moving to the Los Angeles area. She has sold stories to <em>Asimov&#8217;s SF Magazine, Sword &#038; Sorceress XXIV</em>, and other anthologies and magazines. Her reviews appear regularly in <em>Fantasy Magazine</em> and SciFiWire.com and irregularly in other websites and publications. She is completing her first novel, a futuristic mystery tentatively titled <em>The Stone Rain</em>. Ward will be <a href="http://www.tucsonfestivalofbooks.org/">participating in the Tucson Festival of Books </a> at the University of Arizona next weekend (March 13-14).</p>
<p><em>Writing the Other </em>is based on Shawl and Ward&#8217;s critically acclaimed diversity writing workshop <a href="http://www.writingtheother.com/">Writing the Other: Bridging Cultural Differences for Successful Fiction </a>.</p>
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		<title>Friday&#8217;s Links: poor grammar, rich authors and the psychology of romantic fiction</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 19:55:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Matt Staggs</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[First-time author Josephine Angelini gets seven figure book deal for her YA trilogy.
Journalist and writer on the future of libraries Marilyn Johnson on Bat Segundo.
Jon Stewart to host BookExpo America.
Books in the age of the iPad. 
Books to be reinvented as tablets become mainstream.
The worst grammar mistakes ever.
James Cameron defends author of disputed Hiroshima book.
Evolutionary [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://shelf-life.ew.com/2010/03/05/angelini-starcrossed-stephenie-meyer-trojan-war/?utm_source=feedburner&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=Feed%3A+entertainmentweekly%2Fshelf-life+%28Entertainment+Weekly%27s+Shelf+Life%29&amp;utm_content=Google+Reader">First-time author Josephine Angelini gets seven figure book deal for her YA trilogy.</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.edrants.com/the-bat-segundo-show-marilyn-johnson/">Journalist and writer on the future of libraries Marilyn Johnson on Bat Segundo.</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/03/05/jon-stewart-to-host-booke_n_487351.html">Jon Stewart to host BookExpo America.</a></p>
<p><a href="http://craigmod.com/journal/ipad_and_books/">Books in the age of the iPad. </a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/books/news/books-to-be-reinvented-as-tablets-become-mainstream-1916616.html">Books to be reinvented as tablets become mainstream.</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/books/news/books-to-be-reinvented-as-tablets-become-mainstream-1916616.html">The worst grammar mistakes ever.</a></p>
<p><a href="http://artsbeat.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/03/04/cameron-defends-author-of-disputed-hiroshima-book/">James Cameron defends author of disputed Hiroshima book.</a></p>
<p><a href="http://feeds.guardian.co.uk/~r/theguardian/books/rss/~3/aqM2YLCtc38/evolutionary-psychologists-romantic-fiction">Evolutionary psychologists turn their attention to romantic fiction.</a></p>
<p><a href="http://publishingperspectives.com/?p=12559">German book sales down 7.5% without last year&#8217;s Stephenie Meyer sales.</a></p>
<p><a href="http://feeds.guardian.co.uk/~r/theguardian/books/rss/~3/DeFH3c_3jXI/a-week-without-books">A week without books.</a></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; line-height: normal;"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-257" title="n653213921_1671825_1056996" src="http://booklifenow.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/n653213921_1671825_10569964.jpg" alt="n653213921_1671825_1056996" width="98" height="149" />Matt Staggs is a literary publicist and the proprietor of Deep Eight LLC, a boutique publicity agency utilizing the best publicity practices from the worlds of traditional media and evolving social technologies. He has worked in the fields of public relations and journalism for almost a decade. In addition to his work as a publicist, Matt is a book reviewer and writer whose work appears in both print and web publications.</span></p>
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		<title>Everything I’ve learned about writing this year I’ve relearned by watching the Olympics [Part III]</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 16:12:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tamara Sellman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I live in the Puget Sound area, so the fact that I'm a huge fan of Apolo Ohno should come as no surprise. I do appreciate a golden child whenever he or she does come along (complete with awesome attitude), so I must also confess a fondness for snowboarder Shawn White. How can we not live in awe of these two Olympians? Here is what I took away from each of them over the last couple of weeks.  ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today is my last visit to BookLife and I want to thank Jeff Vandermeer again for asking me to contribute this week. It&#8217;s been fun parsing thoughts about the Olympics through the lens of the writing life and I appreciate all the support and comments I&#8217;ve received. Remember, I can be found at <a href="http://www.writersrainbow.com" target="_blank">Writer&#8217;s Rainbow</a> at any given moment; this weekend I&#8217;ll be adding the March monthly dispatch, an introductory discussion into the three basic building blocks of a writing platform, so drop by sometime, check it out, and leave a comment! I wish all of BookLife&#8217;s readers a solid 2010 filled with inspiration and prosperity. </p>
<p>Back to our regularly scheduled programming&#8230; I left my favorite observations for last. I live in the Puget Sound area, so the fact that I&#8217;m a huge fan of Apolo Ohno should come as no surprise. I do appreciate a golden child whenever he or she does come along (complete with awesome attitude), so I must also confess a fondness for snowboarder Shawn White. How can we not live in awe of these two Olympians? Here is what I took away from each of them over the last couple of weeks.<span id="more-472"></span>  </p>
<p>◊ <strong><em>Find your sanctuary.</em></strong> </p>
<p><a href="http://booklifenow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/quietontheset.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-474" title="quietontheset!" src="http://booklifenow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/quietontheset-300x226.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="226" /></a>Who doesn&#8217;t admire Shawn White’s personal half-pipe situation? He made the decision to keep his edge by investing in a remote training facility he customized for his own needs, and clearly it paid off for him. He pulled out and perfected brand-new snowboarding tricks at this year&#8217;s Olympic games that no one could even imagine doing until last week. </p>
<p>Okay, I’m not suggesting that we all go buy multi-million dollar writing labs in Antarctica that we have to visit via a private helicopter service. Let&#8217;s face it, who has the coin for that? </p>
<p>But I <em>am</em> suggesting that, if you don’t have a good place to write regularly, you should consider finding one. Often that means taking ownership of one corner of your house, but it can also mean claiming a period of time in which you ask your friends and family to leave you alone. Sanctuary is not only about locating a designated physical space, but about finding the inner space you need to sit comfortably in your creative zone. This should include the careful consideration of your personal <em>time</em> and <em>energy</em>. </p>
<p>I have a sign I picked up while on Broadway a couple of years ago. It says “Quiet on the set.” Originally I hung it on my office door handle to indicate to my family that I was recording a podcast file. And they understood that to mean I needed for people to honor my need for silence and stop barging in on my session. Now I use that “Quiet on the set” sign as an indication that I am not available because <em>I am writing</em>. (I also use it to mark when I&#8217;m meditating.) </p>
<p>I don’t hang it out there for 8 hours at a time; usually I use the sign for up to an hour’s worth of time composing new work, but only when I know there will be people in the house. It works. </p>
<p>Another thing that works for me when I write “offsite” (usually in a local coffee house) is the use of earbuds while I’m writing. I don’t even listen to music; I find music too intellectually stimulating when I write. But I wear the earbuds anyway, to send out the signal to folks in my small town that I’m not available for chatter. Where I live, you can&#8217;t throw a rock without hitting someone you know, so the chances are high you&#8217;ll run into a friend or colleague or neighbor every time you leave the house. The earbud strategy works as well. </p>
<p>It’s not a selfish or bad thing to ask for sanctuary; it’s perhaps the one tool that will allow you to keep writing when conditions don’t otherwise permit it. But you have to have the nerve to insist on it. And remember, you do not need permission to take time for yourself. </p>
<p>The cost of my investment? An $8 souvenir and a pair of earbuds attached to either my phone or my laptop. No, it&#8217;s not a Shawn White multiplex, but it&#8217;ll do. And it does. </p>
<p>◊ <strong><em>Stay classy </em></strong>(with a nod to spec-fic writer <a href="http://www.jlake.com/" target="_blank">Jay Lake</a>, who frequently uses this term in his tweets!). </p>
<div id="attachment_475" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://booklifenow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Apolo_Ohnos_speed_skates.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-475" title="Apolo_Ohno's_speed_skates" src="http://booklifenow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Apolo_Ohnos_speed_skates-300x297.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="297" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">&quot;Apolo Ohno&#39;s speed skates&quot; by Mark Pellegrini (2008)</p></div>
<p>Okay, I don’t know about you, but I’m pretty sure US speed skater Apolo Ohno didn’t push that other guy down in the 500-meter race last Friday night. It looked to me like he was pulling his hand away from the hip of the Canadian racer when that skater lost his blade edge and slid into the padded wall. Physics 1010 suggests that, if you&#8217;re pulling your hand away from something, you really can&#8217;t simultaneously push against it&#8230; Unless you&#8217;re superhuman, I suppose. And maybe Ohno is&#8230; </p>
<p>But when Ohno crossed the finish line in second place, you could see it in his eyes: <em>this race is not over yet</em>. It’s because he’s learned over more than a decade of competitive racing that the sport is subjective, people will fall and mess it up for all the other skaters, and playing dirty may or may not have anything to do with it. </p>
<p>When the reporter from NBC asked him about it later, he was honest: he thought it was a bad call. But did he whine and complain that the Canadian judge was playing favorites? No. He ultimately said, laughing, “I just need to skate faster!” </p>
<p>How cool is that?</p>
<p>Remember the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tonya_Harding#The_Kerrigan_attack" target="_blank">Tonya Harding-Nancy Kerrigan scandal</a> from the 1994 Winter Olympic Games at Lillehammer? I could see why viewers might hold a bad opinion about Harding; she behaved pretty immaturely and, when the truth came out about the conspiracy to assault Kerrigan, that sealed the deal. It&#8217;s widely agreed: Harding performed an unforgivable act of corruption.</p>
<p>But if you recall, Nancy Kerrigan wasn’t especially classy about taking her silver medal that year, either. At the awards podium, she didn’t show an appropriate amount of honor and respect to <a title="Oksana Baiul" href="/wiki/Oksana_Baiul">Oksana Baiul</a>, who she clearly felt took &#8220;her&#8221; gold. </p>
<p>Sorry Nancy, but this is not the attitude of a superhero.</p>
<p>Miss Kerrigan, take note: Last week, Canadian figure skater Joannie Rochette&#8217;s mother died before Joannie&#8217;d had a chance to take the ice. Rochette went on to skate her personal best and took away a bronze. Now that&#8217;s what I call gracious and classy to the end. </p>
<p>How does this pertain to writers? </p>
<p>If you see a writer you don’t admire winning a prize, you should still give them credit and move on. The awarding of prizes, like the adjudication of short track speed skating, is subjective. Sometimes the rulings will be fair, sometimes they won’t. Coming out publicly with your displeasure gives the appearance of sour grapes, but even more importantly, it doesn’t make it more likely that you’ll publish your work in that venue or others now or in the future. </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve seen writers tear down other writers in this way and it&#8217;s so painful to watch. Listen, if you’re bitter enough, and you make your bitterness public enough, editors may even avoid working with you. Remember, they read everything&#8230; including the boards on the web. </p>
<p>The truth is that sometimes judges <em>do</em> call a fair match and if you&#8217;re surprised, it might be because you, as a writer, are not open-minded or sophisticated enough in your craft and process to see that there are many, many ways to do something <em>right</em>.  And sometimes, as Ohno points out, that&#8217;s just the breaks of the game. There&#8217;s also the very real possibility that our work is really not as good as that of the writers we dislike. Who among us are that objective about our own work? I&#8217;d guess close to 0%. </p>
<p>You could mire yourself in criticism of other writers, slander contests, pass judgment on the judges themselves… or you could use the unfavorable outcome as your motivation to do your personal best next time. What did Ohno do? He shed the loss, focused his energy on the following relay, and assisted his team in bringing home a bronze medal. What did Rochette do? She pushed through the pain and performed for all the right reasons, without using her grief as a crutch. </p>
<p>Now that’s staying classy. </p>
<p>Thank you so much for reading. Don&#8217;t miss out on my previous posts this week, as well! TGIF, </p>
<p><em>Tamara</em>  </p>
<p><a href="http://booklifenow.com/2010/03/everything-i%e2%80%99ve-learned-about-writing-this-year-i%e2%80%99ve-relearned-by-watching-the-olympics-series-part-one/" target="_blank">Everything I’ve learned about writing this year I’ve relearned by watching the Olympics [series Part One]</a> </p>
<p><a href="http://booklifenow.com/2010/03/everything-i%e2%80%99ve-learned-about-writing-this-year-i%e2%80%99ve-relearned-by-watching-the-olympics-series-part-two/" target="_blank">Everything I’ve learned about writing this year I’ve relearned by watching the Olympics [series Part Two]</a> </p>
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		<dc:creator>Tamara Sellman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[On Monday, I brought up some thoughts inspired by 10 days spent watching the recent winter Olympics in Vancouver on TV. Here are two more lessons I culled which offer relevance and perspective for writers:]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On Monday, I brought up <a href="http://booklifenow.com/2010/03/everything-i%e2%80%99ve-learned-about-writing-this-year-i%e2%80%99ve-relearned-by-watching-the-olympics-series-part-one/" target="_blank">some thoughts inspired by 10 days spent watching the recent winter Olympics in Vancouver on TV</a>. Here are two more lessons I culled which offer relevance and perspective for writers:</p>
<p>◊ <strong><em>Expect to earn your medals every time.</em></strong></p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-466" src="http://booklifenow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/BoarderX-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" />Snowboarder Lindsey Jacobellis <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IKmCCIjgY4E" target="_blank">kinda blew it in Torino</a>. She hotdogged her way to a second place in women’s snowboard cross when she had the gold medal practically around her neck on that last slope.</p>
<p>Jacobellis has had to live that down for the last 4 years and went to Vancouver hoping to redeem herself. <a href="http://sports.espn.go.com/olympics/winter/2010/snowboarding/columns/story?id=4919914" target="_blank">It didn’t quite happen</a>: this year, <span id="more-463"></span>she DQ’d in prelims and had to duke it out for 4<sup>th</sup> place, even though her odds of taking home a medal were just as certain as they had been in 2006.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not judging. It’s gotta be tough to perform in such a public mainstream arena because, frankly, if you fail, everybody knows about it. Even people from the mainstream, who really don&#8217;t know the bigger score in such a specialty sport. For Jacobellis, it&#8217;s her 2009 first place ranking in World Cup ladies snowcross that folks overlook while calling attention to her failure in 2010.</p>
<p>Writers have it slightly better: if they fail, usually they just get rejected and no one but the writer and the prospective publisher are the wiser. Still, failure can be self-destructive. There isn&#8217;t a writer alive who has been rejected who doesn&#8217;t see &#8220;No&#8221; as evidence of failure.</p>
<p>But failure isn&#8217;t always what it looks like. Sometimes a good writer doesn’t fail so much as they lose to another&#8211;usually better&#8211;writer in competition for the same publishing real estate.  As an editor, I’ve had to reject perfectly successful stories from good authors because other authors have already beaten them to the punch. It&#8217;s unfair and editors hate to have to send good writing away, but it happens.</p>
<p>The bigger, more common reality, however, is not the tragic story of the near-miss, but this: just because you have published one manuscript does not guarantee that you will publish all of your manuscripts. Every time you submit your work, you enter it into conditions which you can&#8217;t completely predict or control. Just because you may have landed your work with one publisher doesn’t mean you’re going to walk into a publishing house in the future and sign the dotted line with your next manuscript without first submitting your new work to intense scrutiny. Your next manuscript, and the one after that, and so forth, will have to earn its way and survive on its own every time.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s not to say there aren&#8217;t some conditions you can control: your effort to make your manuscript the best ever, your careful consideration of markets, your voice and style are things you can focus on to improve the success rate of an individual piece sent out into the world to find its place.</p>
<p>But there are always going to be conditions you can’t control: the competition, the amount of space available for work like yours, the practical needs of an editor that go beyond the value of a well-written manuscript. The sooner you make your peace with this reality, the better.</p>
<p>Lindsey Jacobellis didn&#8217;t fall out of the snowboard cross universe because she failed at the Olympics, after all. She just didn&#8217;t win <em>that</em> particular race in Vancouver, just as you will not publish every single manuscript you submit to that particular publication. What to do? Keep going and remember, you win some, you lose some.</p>
<p>◊ <strong><em>Sometimes you have to ski blind.</em></strong></p>
<p><a href="http://booklifenow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/chairlift-in-fog.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-467" title="chairlift in fog" src="http://booklifenow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/chairlift-in-fog-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>German sisters Susanne and Maria Riesch had big hopes of sharing the podium this year in alpine skiing. Maria took the gold, while Susanne ended up in a collision that cost her the chance to join her sister.</p>
<p>Susanne&#8217;s &#8220;failure&#8221; mirrored the &#8220;failures&#8221; of many other world-class skiers at this year&#8217;s Olympics. Deteriorating slope conditions and visibility issues were a major contributing factor for many, with luck being a larger-than-usual part of the equation. It&#8217;s risky business, skiing when you can’t see ten feet in front of you.</p>
<p>But anything worth doing requires an assumption of risk, and those who take the chance&#8211;though they are likely to fail big&#8211;are also likely to <em>win</em> big.</p>
<p>So it goes with writing. It’s important for writers to stretch their skill sets beyond what they know they can accomplish. Leading a successful writing life is not only about publishing every piece you’ve ever written. After doing this a while, you can find yourself in a rut on the safe path, where you risk parodying yourself. Writers who dare risk to stretch their skills also take a chance at failing big. </p>
<p>Chicago mystery author Sarah Paretsky ventured from her <em>VI Warshawski</em> series to write <em>Ghost Country</em>, a magical realist departure which, though it received high acclaim, did not seem to go over well with her established readers. She took a risk and lost some readers, but found others. For instance, I had not read a single of her mysteries before I read <em>Ghost Country</em>, and I found I really liked her street-level feminist narrative style. I&#8217;d read Paretsky again. No doubt Paretsky learned some things about herself as a writer in the bargain, things that may have improved her <em>VI Warshawski</em> series.</p>
<p>I have my own&#8211;though far more humble&#8211;experience with taking risks with my writing. I took one summer off from my writing group and wrote a weird story I couldn’t categorize (I learned later it was magical realism). I took it to my writing group in the fall; they hated it (except for the one fan of magical realism). But I blindly stuck to my guns and sent it out into the universe anyway. It became the first short story I ever published, and it earned me a Pushcart prize nomination and <em>Rosebud</em> magazine’s accolade as one of their best published stories for that year. Who knew? Not me. I was &#8220;writing blind,&#8221; but the reward I took away was all I needed to keep going, to keep writing even when a rejection from one of my favorite magazines came only a couple of weeks after I&#8217;d found a home for that first oddball story.</p>
<p>Remembering that risks can often lead to great rewards can be motivation enough for writers. And don&#8217;t forget; you&#8217;re less likely to break a leg while trying something new! Even if you don&#8217;t succeed right out of the gate, you&#8217;ll still have more opportunities to turn your luck around. The Riesch sisters will compete again for the shared podium, Sara Paretsky continues to be successful, whether writing mysteries or something else entirely, and I&#8217;ve published more than one piece of writing since that fateful day in 1996, so take heart: assuming risk may <em>not</em> guarantee <em>success</em> but it <em>will</em> guarantee <em>opportunity</em>.</p>
<p>Coming Friday: “Find your sanctuary” and “Stay classy.” See you then! </p>
<p><em>Tamara</em> </p>
<p><a href="http://booklifenow.com/2010/03/everything-i%e2%80%99ve-learned-about-writing-this-year-i%e2%80%99ve-relearned-by-watching-the-olympics-series-part-one/" target="_blank">Everything I’ve learned about writing this year I’ve relearned by watching the Olympics [series Part One]</a></p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 17:37:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tamara Sellman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This week, I offer the series, "Everything I’ve learned about writing this year I’ve relearned by watching the Olympics" in three parts. As writers, we have cobbled together our own hopes and dreams for becoming the future titans of the literary world. We have much to learn from athletes, and this Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, I'll give examples that show how writers can learn from the trials of Olympians.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi everyone! I want to thank Jeff at <em>BookLife</em> for inviting me to take the reins this week at his wonderful, must-read blog. There are few things I love more than blogging about and for writers and writing, so it&#8217;s an honor to do so at one of the smartest writing blogs out there.</p>
<p>Anticipating the content of my posts this week has been rather challenging: there&#8217;s so much to write about! But it came to me on Saturday as I realized my interest in the Olympics was beginning to wane. </p>
<p>I&#8217;d seen all I needed to see of curling, short track speed skating, downhill, bobsled, snowcross and the like. But the Olympics always linger in my mind long after the network has packed up its cameras and talking heads and returned to regularly scheduled programming. </p>
<p>Witnessing (live or on TV) the prowess of the world&#8217;s athletes is always inspiring to me. I grew up in a sports household (baseball, basketball, track and field, gymnastics, soccer, football, softball, volleyball, tennis have all been played with regularity by at least one member of my immediate family), so I&#8217;m already in the practice of appreciating the work that goes into excelling at sports. </p>
<p>But the world&#8217;s finest athletes perform with a caliber and grace that takes human experience beyond what it means to be fit or a sound competitor. These are the titans of the modern day, and like the titans of the past, the masses can&#8217;t help but idolize them as the demi-gods they truly are. </p>
<p>This week, I offer the series, &#8220;Everything I’ve learned about writing this year I’ve relearned by watching the Olympics&#8221; in three parts. As writers, we have cobbled together our own hopes and dreams for becoming the future titans of the literary world. We have much to learn from athletes, and this Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, I&#8217;ll give examples that show how writers can learn from the trials of Olympians.</p>
<p>Today I&#8217;ll talk about discipline and perseverance. <span id="more-426"></span></p>
<p><em><strong>◊ Say no to say yes.</strong></em> </p>
<div id="attachment_435" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 160px"><a href="http://booklifenow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/800px-Madrid_Snowzone-cropped.jpg"><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-435 " title="800px-Madrid_Snowzone cropped" src="http://booklifenow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/800px-Madrid_Snowzone-cropped-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">&quot;Madrid Snowzone&quot; by Saliendo del Cajón (2007)</p></div>
<p>Every single Olympian had to set aside large chunks of their life in order to prepare for competition, often relocating to train at a facility far from home. They also made the conscious choice to give up certain things, like favorite foods or TV or seeing their family, in order to do so. </p>
<p>Writers have it a little bit better than that: they don’t have to leave behind their entire family for months on end to go to a special facility to write. Granted, writers may take a week off here or there and go on a writing retreat. But they can also opt for a home office or a coffeehouse or the daily commute on the train to achieve their dreams and return to home’s comforts every day. </p>
<p>There are some things writers need to give up in order to have a writing life, though: <em>time</em> and <em>energy</em>. Novels don’t finish themselves, after all. A hockey player may need to skate sprints or block pucks repeatedly for hours; so will a writer need to put her butt in the chair and write as much and as best as she can. Some days, it will come easily; other days, the work will be excruciating. The rule is, for both the athlete and the writer, to keep going. Discipline and focus are the tools that empower folks to say <em>no</em> in order to say <em>yes</em>. </p>
<p>Next week, if you are almost done with a short story first draft, say <em>no</em> to that Oscar party (and set your DVR) so you can say <em>yes</em> to finishing the draft.  Got a batch of revisions you need to complete by Friday, but you don’t have time? Make it a priority anyway: cancel the book club you were going to visit midweek to cull time to implement your manuscript&#8217;s changes. Get up early to revise your manuscript on your day off. Take your work out in the sun with you, should good weather happen for you this week. </p>
<p>Keep your eyes on the prize and don’t let things that really don’t matter get in the way. You can watch the Oscars later; you can send your reading comments ahead of time to the book group; you can get your work done <em>and</em> enjoy the sun. This is how success happens: by setting priorities, staying focused, and being flexible. It all starts with saying <em>no</em> and meaning it. </p>
<p><em><strong>◊ Remember that not everyone will appreciate what you do.</strong></em> </p>
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<div id="attachment_433" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 160px"><a href="http://booklifenow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/800px-Curling_stones_on_rink_with_visible_pebble1.jpg"><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-433" title="800px-Curling_stones_on_rink_with_visible_pebble" src="http://booklifenow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/800px-Curling_stones_on_rink_with_visible_pebble1-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">&quot;Curling stones on rink with visible pebble&quot; by Felix (2007)</p></div>
<p>I fell in love with curling while watching the 2002 Olympics in Park City. I still love its strategy and precision, the dedicated teamwork, the sport&#8217;s intellectual nuances. </p>
<p>No, curling&#8217;s athletes may not be rock-solid muscle machines, but they perform with amazing finesse, possess hawk-like vision, and show more dedication to their dreams than many people I know. Still, they get a lot of flak from the press for not appearing to be rock-solid muscle machines. </p>
<p>Why? Because it’s hard to understand curling&#8217;s challenges <em>just by watching</em>. You can’t see the benefit of training in their bodies, though it&#8217;s there. Badminton, marksmanship, golf, and ping pong are also difficult sports, but they don’t necessarily get the same respect from the viewing audience that skiers and runners and swimmers do. </p>
<p>But curlers and marksmen and ping pong players and golfers and badminton teams don&#8217;t really give a hoot about what the audience thinks. To have fans cheering for them is merely the icing on the cake; ultimately, these kinds of athletes are not doing it for the fans, they’re doing it because they have well-tuned skills and want to compete with the best of the best. </p>
<p>This bodes true for writers as well: poets of rhyming verse, experimental prose aficionados, bloggers, folks who bend genre, children’s authors, short story writers, citizen journalists, and many, many others. How many times have you heard a nonwriter say, “Well, I could’ve written that!” <em>Except that they didn’t. </em>Because, really, they <em>can’t. </em>They have no real idea how hard it is to do what these writers do. So writers who vary from the popular, bestselling forms may have to endure a lot of judgment from people who really don’t know better. </p>
<p>It’s not easy to write anything, whether it’s a bestselling novel or popular genre or flash fiction or a villanelle. It&#8217;s even hard to write a bad manuscript! But it’s even harder to write well when the culture around you doesn’t truly appreciate your chosen form. </p>
<p>You have to find a way, like the curlers, to slough that off. The way to do that is to hang out with like-minded others, honor the leaders in your chosen form and genre, stay focused on what it is you want to accomplish, study from the masters at every opportunity, and then give it your level best. You may never find a huge fan base for what you write, but just as there are fans for curling, there will be fans for what you have to say as well. </p>
<p>Coming Wednesday: &#8220;Expect to earn your medals every time&#8221; and &#8220;Sometimes you have to ski blind.&#8221; See you then!</p>
<p><em>Tamara</em></p>
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<p><a href="http://www.tamarasellman.com" target="_blank">Tamara Kaye Sellman</a> is director of <a href="http://www.writersrainbow.com" target="_blank">Writer&#8217;s Rainbow Literary Services</a>. </p>
<p><strong>Photo credits:</strong>Images used in this post are the property of Tamara Sellman or have been licensed for blogging use under the <a title="w:en:Creative Commons" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/en:Creative_Commons">Creative Commons</a> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/2.0/deed.en">Attribution 2.0 Generic</a> license. </p>
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		<title>Welcome Tamara Kaye Sellman, This Week&#8217;s Guest Blogger</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Feb 2010 23:17:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeff VanderMeer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[From time to time we&#8217;ll have guest bloggers here at Booklifenow during 2010. This next week, Tamara Kaye Sellman will be blogging. Be sure to stop by for her perspective on writing, the writing life, and much more!
If you&#8217;re not familiar with Sellman, here&#8217;s a short overview&#8230;

A Pacific Northwest native, Tamara Kaye Sellman is a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>From time to time we&#8217;ll have guest bloggers here at Booklifenow during 2010. This next week, <a href="http://www.tamarasellman.com/">Tamara Kaye Sellman </a>will be blogging. Be sure to stop by for her perspective on writing, the writing life, and much more!</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re not familiar with Sellman, here&#8217;s a short overview&#8230;</p>
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<p>A Pacific Northwest native, Tamara Kaye Sellman is a journalist, creative writer, blogger, and publishing professional living and working in Bainbridge Island, Washington. She specializes in literary fiction, magical realism, short stories and flash fiction, food and garden writing, freelance feature/interpretive journalism, independent publishing, and citizen journalism. She also facilitates various kinds of writing workshops (generative, motivational or educational); specialty subjects include magical realism/&#8221;strangeness,&#8221; short fiction, revision, citizen journalism, and Web 2.0 concerns for writers.</p>
<p>Sellman&#8217;s fiction, poetry, columns, editorials, reviews, and other writings have been published widely and internationally.  </p>
<p>Sellman holds a undergraduate degree with honors from Columbia College Chicago with an emphasis on journalism and a specialty in magazine editing and publishing. She also took extensive coursework in the Story Workshop undergraduate program at Columbia under Zoe Keithley and Shawn Shiflett and has since studied under such writers as Aimee Bender, John Crowley, Brian Evenson, Kim Barnes, Bruce Holland Rogers, and Michelle Cliff. </p>
<p>As the retired founder of the electronic anthology, MARGIN: Exploring Modern Magical Realism (http://www.magical-realism.com) and its companion interactive community, MRCentral.net, Sellman is now at work on a practical writer&#8217;s guide to literary magical realism. She has worked previously in cookbook editing, desktop publishing, print production, literary conference organizing and public relations/marketing. Sellman has held memberships with the Field&#8217;s End writer&#8217;s community of Bainbridge Island, the Richard Hugo House in Seattle, Jane&#8217;s Stories Press Foundation, the Council of Literary Magazines and Presses, Associated Writing Programs, PEN-Washington, PoetsWest, Washington Poets Association, the Speculative Literature Foundation, and SPAWN (Small Publishers, Artists and Writers Network).  </p>
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		<title>Friday&#8217;s Links: Trolls, Teens and Magazines</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 15:37:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Matt Staggs</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tomorrow is National Magazine Day. Time to &#8220;Attack the Stack.&#8221;
There are no guarantees, in writing or in life.
Teenage fiction&#8217;s death wish.
Web surfer recovers stolen Descartes letter.
Agony Column interviews Dan Simmons. 
Keeping out the trolls: relevancy in user-generated content. 
What is the worst sentence you ever wrote?
Nintendo makes moves into book market.
Thousands of authors opt out [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.magazineday.net/">Tomorrow is National Magazine Day. Time to &#8220;Attack the Stack.&#8221;</a></p>
<p><a href="http://author2author.blogspot.com/2010/02/there-are-no-guarantees-in-writing-or.html">There are no guarantees, in writing or in life.</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/books/2010/feb/25/teenage-fiction-death">Teenage fiction&#8217;s death wish.</a></p>
<p><a href="http://mhpbooks.com/mobylives/?p=13076">Web surfer recovers stolen Descartes letter.</a></p>
<p><a href="http://bookotron.com/agony/news/2010/02-22-10-podcast.htm#podcast022610">Agony Column interviews Dan Simmons. </a></p>
<p><a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/readwriteweb/~3/cu99veBH1eE/trolls-relevancy.php">Keeping out the trolls: relevancy in user-generated content. </a></p>
<p><a href="http://therumpus.net/2010/02/what-is-the-worst-sentence-you-ever-wrote/">What is the worst sentence you ever wrote?</a></p>
<p><a href="http://publishingperspectives.com/?p=12381">Nintendo makes moves into book market.</a></p>
<p><a href="http://therumpus.net/2010/02/thousands-of-authors-opt-out-of-google-book-plan/">Thousands of authors opt out of Google Book plan.</a></p>
<p><a href="http://bloodredpencil.blogspot.com/2010/02/ask-editor-do-edits-change-style.html">Ask the editor: do edits change style? </a></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; line-height: normal;"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-257" title="n653213921_1671825_1056996" src="http://booklifenow.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/n653213921_1671825_10569964.jpg" alt="n653213921_1671825_1056996" width="98" height="149" />Matt Staggs is a literary publicist and the proprietor of Deep Eight LLC, a boutique publicity agency utilizing the best publicity practices from the worlds of traditional media and evolving social technologies. He has worked in the fields of public relations and journalism for almost a decade. In addition to his work as a publicist, Matt is a book reviewer and writer whose work appears in both print and web publications.</span></p>
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		<title>Taking Stock: What Have You Learned in 2010?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 19:16:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeff VanderMeer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m pleased to announce that writer and consultant Tamara Sellman will be guestblogging at Booklife next week. The week after, Nisi Shawl and Cynthia Ward, authors of Writing the Other, will be guest blogging. Then, in the third week of March, I will finally get around to sharing my thoughts on the modern book tour.
So [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m pleased to announce that writer and consultant Tamara Sellman will be guestblogging at Booklife next week. The week after, Nisi Shawl and Cynthia Ward, authors of <em>Writing the Other</em>, will be guest blogging. Then, in the third week of March, I will finally get around to sharing my thoughts on the modern book tour.</p>
<p>So far 2010 has been a busy year for me, and although we&#8217;re only two months in it&#8217;s a good time to take stock and reevaluate where I am. In part this is because a lot of us make new goals in January, but often find that by February some of those goals have gone out the window.</p>
<p>So, writers out there, I ask you: What did you decide to accomplish this year, and where are you right now as opposed to where you thought you&#8217;d be? And is this good news or bad news or just the way things are?</p>
<p>For my part, I had my wife change the password to my facebook account so I wouldn&#8217;t waste any time online during a period of intense deadlines. I&#8217;ve also learned that, for now at least, it&#8217;s important for me to spend much less time in the electronic world in general.</p>
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